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15 Best Romantic Valentine’s Day Nail Designs

I was recently searching for cool Valentine’s Day Nail Design Ideas and came across some really beautiful ones and plenty of not so much, so I decided to make a list of the 15 Best Romantic Valentine’s Day Nail Designs for you. Some of these look pretty easy to do yourself, some require a professional.

Treat yourself and surprise your man with this awesome Nail Art for your pretty fingers on the most romantic day of the year.


15 Best Romantic Valentine’s Day Nail Designs


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Baby Activities

I have recently become a mom. It is such a wonderful, fulfilling, exhausting but yet rewarding experience that I truly enjoy. When my daughter was born I knew very little about babies, and even less about what to do with them. The more time I spend with her, the more I learn. There are plenty of baby games out there on the internet that you can easily find, but I would like to share with you my favorite infant games and baby activities for a baby development. You do not need to buy anything, you can easily find everything that you need at your place.

I am not a pediatrician so before you try any of these baby learning games, please consult with your doctor.

I know every mom wants her little precious angel to develop well that’s why I came up with this list of easy and fun games and activities for babies.

I hope you will find something that you and your little one will enjoy doing together!

1. Massage

My top favorite thing is a massage that I give to my little one every day after her bath. It’s such a great bonding experience, we look at each others eyes smiling. I just love it.

Someone (can’t remember who it was as I practically didn’t sleep those days. Midwife? Nurse? Pediatrician? one of those) told me in the hospital that I shouldn’t use baby creams and lotions in the first days of my baby’s life and let her skin produce it’s natural oils.

When she was about a month old, I started giving her a nice gentle massage, starting from her little toes, soles of her tiny feet, all the way up to her cheeks. She was suffering from winds that’s why I massaged her stomach in the clockwise motion, and after that giving her a “Waterfall belly massage” (starting from her lower ribs down alternating my hands in a so-called “waterfall motion”).

2. Aroma Balls

I love this exercise because every time we do it my little one gives me the funniest array of facial expressions.

Basically what you do is get about 5 cotton balls and put different every day scented products like toothpaste, perfume, lotions, creams, gels on them. Then you bring the balls close to your baby’s face without touching them one by one. Check your baby’s reactions to different products, see what they enjoy smelling and what they don’t like.

3. Touch That

I give my baby different items to touch, like a silky scarf, a furry toy, a plastic rattle, a soft ball, etc. When she touches and looks at the item, I tell her what it is, just talk to her. Babies learn about this world through their touch.

4. Follow Me

When she was about a month or so old, we started showing her a rattle and moving it left to right, up and down, closer to her face and further away from it. She wasn’t following it at first but with the time developed that skill.

5. Tummy Time

This exercise helps babies develop their neck, stomach and back muscles. We do this activity a lot in different variations. She could either just lie on me and look around, or I’ll put her on a bed and place a bright object just out of her reach for her to try and move herself closer to it.

6. Roll Over

After her tummy time exercise I will help her roll over on her back and back to her tummy. She really enjoys this activity and once was able to roll over to her back herself!

7. Dance With Me

I turn some classical music for her brain development, or some nice upbeat music and dance with her in my arms. I feel like this is another great bonding experience and we both love dancing together.

There are plenty more exercises but these are so far our favorite ones. I think the most important thing is to communicate with your baby. See what they like and what they don’t like. Enjoy spending this time together because babies grow up so quick! Just breathe in and savor every moment you can with each other.




Why I Left The USA for SA

Why Did I Leave The USA for SA?

Let me start from the beginning.

When I was around 13 y.o., back home, in Russia, I started watching the tv show called “Wild Angel”, and I, like plenty of girls, fell in love with the characters of the show. I didn’t know what I wanted to do after school back then. I watched other shows besides that one – latin, european, american. I loved that life – so interesting, diverse, eventful.

And there came an idea! I wanted to become an actress!

From early childhood my friends and I performed for our neighbors, and it seemed they liked it. My dad would help us with music and decorations, and we all had so much fun!

Thanks to the tv shows that I watched, I understood that Acting – is the most wonderful profession in the world. You can be anyone you want, new roles, new characters, new locations. You will never get tired of routine. It’s simply a dream!

I started thinking about how to become an actress, what I needed for that. Moscow was out of question, as I thought without connections you can’t get through, besides I wasn’t a big fan of Russian TV shows and movies of that time. My favorite of all was and still is “Muneca Brava” (“Wild Angel”). Such emotions, passion, love! It made me cry and laugh.

I decided to move to Argentina, where it was shot, and start acting there. I started learning Spanish and at that time it was better than my English.

Later, in high school, I had another idea. If I wanted to be an actress, why would I not move to the capital of movie-making – Hollywood? Well, of course! Why didn’t I think of that before?

I started learning English, went to University to study languages and after my second year went to the US for the first time! I will never forget those first moments at JFK. Everything looked like in the movie, New York blew my mind with its’ beauty. I fell in love with America and decided that I will do anything I can to move there, to the country where all your dreams come true! That summer I also met the love of my life.

A few years went by, I graduated from my University and moved to the USA. I was so excited and eager to move that I didn’t even wait to get my diploma, my mom got it for me.

That summer I spent at my camp, where I’d go almost every summer apart from the summer of 2007, because I wasn’t given a visa (but this is another story), and then moved to NYC. Went to a language college, worked as a background actress on a few sets, signed up for some acting classes, spent lots of money on them and headshots, but it didn’t lead anywhere. I had less and less gigs, worked as a waitress at a Pakistani restaurant, at a hookah bar, distributed flyers, but my finances weren’t the best. Apart from that the apartment that we were renting with a friend had bed bugs and we were freaking out. That beautiful New York that I fell in love with 3 years ago didn’t seem too pretty anymore, and definitely didn’t look like a place where all your dreams come true.

It was the end of 2008, that economical crisis was in its’ full bloom and we started thinking about moving away. I wanted to move to Hollywood so bad, it’s there, in Los Angeles, they shoot all the movies, there is a movie capital!

We started looking for a job, but with no luck. The closest job to California that we found was at a small ski resort town Frisco, Colorado, and we decided to go. One freezing cold December day we bought Greyhound tickets and hit the road. It took us about two days to get there. I felt really bad, fever, coughing and being so cold – it sure didn’t seem any glamorous, I didn’t care about the beauty that was flashing behind the window of our bus.

We arrived to Colorado, worked there for almost a year, made some money and decided it was the time. We wanted to go to Hollywood. We at first went to a friend of my friend to Arizona and started looking for a job from there. No luck again. The closest place to LA where we found a job was in Sacramento. Also California, but not LA. Anyway, we decided to go, but it turned really bad. We got there, paid for the apartment, but were lied to. We were told there was no job and we had to wait, even though they assured us before that there was one for us. We obviously weren’t happy about it, called the person who we contacted originally for the job and by the evening there was a job. We had to clean the reception hall after the wedding, which we did. Job is a job and we did it great. We got paid a little for it. Later in the evening, when we were about to go to bed, the man that gave us the job called me and invited me for an evening stroll. I explained him nicely that I came to Sacramento to work, not hang out. It did make me feel uneasy, we pushed all our suitcases to block the door of our room, just in case, and tried to sleep. Couldn’t get much sleep and woke up pretty early. When we went to get some breakfast and unblocked our room we saw that man sleeping on our couch with plenty of empty beer bottles and sunflower seeds around him. In out living room, that we paid for!

It scared us even more. I called my friend from that summer camp, that lived in a city nearby. Fortunately he was in Sacramento and quickly got to our place. We quietly moved our stuff out, the guys threw our bags in the car and we woke the man up. He wasn’t too happy about it, but when he saw big black guys (we later found out that Armenians and the Black don’t like each other too much), he became super nice and friendly. He said he didn’t have our money as he gave it to the owner of the apartment (apparently things changes since yesterday when he was boasting about how many apartments he owns here) but he will send us the money when he gets it. We weren’t stupid and knew it wasn’t going to happen. We were just lucky enough to get out of there. God was with us and He helped us.

The guys dropped us off at the Greyhound station, we thanked them and paid for their gas and went back to Arizona. Stayed there for a couple of weeks and decided it was time to go to LA while we still had the money.

Back on the bus, back on the road. The setting sun was so beautiful – warm and promising, that everything is going to be ok. By that time we already stayed in the US for over a year and for some reason never though of going home. I still don’t know, why not. Probably because we were so young and reckless, who knows.

We arrived to LA quite late. On the way I saw a big yellow Carl’s Junior star and I told my friend, “Look, the star is smiling at us! We will make it work!” We smiled at each other and the fear sort of went away.

We stayed at a hostel near LAX. Finally we made it to the city where all the dreams come true. We couldn’t really see anything at night, so we waited for the morning to break, but it didn’t bring us what were were expecting. It was a cloudy, rainy day, dirty part of the town and plenty of homeless people.

We started looking for a job and an apartment, and were lucky enough to find the both quite quickly. I joined Central Casting, signed up for acting classes, and my crazy LA life began. It wasn’t easy but it was interesting. I started as a background actor, new movies and TV shows, graveyard shift at Abercrombie and Fitch, and auditions. I started taking classes to get rid of my accent, found friends that were as interested in the movie-making as I was. We started writing and shooting webisodes and short films. It was really interesting. One of our shorts even won “Audience Favorite Award” at a film festival. I started booking more and more stand-in jobs, was learning what’s happening on sets, but it didn’t go any further than that.

I started hearing more and more that really little depends on your talent in Hollywood

  • If no one knows you;
  • If you don’t have a big following in social media;
  • If you don’t have a rich dad that will sponsor your movie;
  • If you don’t want to show your private parts to the whole world;
  • If you don’t want to sleep with anyone…

your chances are tiny to make it in Hollywood.

If you want to act, do it yourself – that’s what I understood. Put together a group of young independent filmmakers, write, shoot, edit, post it on YouTube and Vimeo, show your work in different festivals. I think this is the only way to make it there now.

As the time went by my passion for movies started to go away. I wasn’t excited to wake up at 4am after my graveyard shift at AnF to go to the set. I got tired of that.

My love moved to the USA to be with me. This was the only thing that gave my joy and smiles the last two years in the states. I didn’t know what was wrong with me. I lived in the USA, I drove my own car, I shared an apartment with my love and my friend, I worked on multiple sets, on different TV shows, a couple of more years and I’d get my citizenship. What else do you need to be happy?

There was something that I was missing. My Russian friends that I spoke to shared similar feelings. They weren’t happy. The stereotypes about Russian actresses were still alive – if you are Russian, you can only audition for a role of a prostitute, a stripper, a girlfriend of a mob guy, a drug mule. Those who weren’t in the movie industry were telling me that they are just tired of this life – work-home-work. When they would go to Russia to visit their family they would feel happy and wouldn’t want to go back. A lot of them moved back to Russia.

I started thinking, “What am I doing in the USA? Why am I here? My family is back in Russia, the closest people are so far from me. My love moved here for me but wasn’t happy here in the states. Something was missing here for him. What what could it be? It’s the USA! The best customer service, everything you can think of – you can find anything here!”

He opened my eyes. He is from South Africa and a vert sporty guy. He used to go rock-climbing, play cricket and play bunch of sports after work, he used to going fishing and camping on the weekends.

Even though LA has plenty of possibilities, there are so many people, so many cars, crazy traffic and you can’t do as much as he’s used to back home, apart from work.

The USA is a wonderful country for single immigrants, I think, for those who wants to build their own business, and have the family later, for those who found their love and found themselves. Konrad opened my eyes to the fact, that all these years that I stayed in the US I didn’t live, I excited. I love traveling but I didn’t really do that. I worked, worked and worked, and because many of my friends lived the same way I took it for the norm. But where was life? Where were hangouts with family and friends? Where were starlit nights somewhere at a camp site? Where were the rest and multiple activities that I liked? That’s what I was missing out on and he knew that.

When we found out that I was pregnant, we put a list together of advantages and disadvantages of staying in the USA and moving to SA. South Africa won easily despite of all it’s problems. I was also thinking of going back to Russia, but he doesn’t speak Russian and it would complicate our situation a bit.

I’ve been living here in SA for 2 months today. It’s a beautiful country with plenty of opportunities – nature, sport, outdoors, traveling, outings with friends… I feel like I’ve been out with my new friends here during these 2 months more than during 7 years in the USA. Why? I didn’t have any time back there – work, work, work.

I haven’t found my new passion yet – acting was that for me for many years, but that passion is gone.

Now I want to be the best mom and life partner that I can be, and the new passion will come, I know it will, with the time but it will.

I think about the USA at times. America will always take a special part in my heart. It made me stronger, showed me what I’m made of, made my believe that God is always with me, that He protects me. I will be forever grateful to this experience, to the wonderful friends I met there and those who helped me along the way. I also feel like no matter how wonderful America is, it’s not for everyone, maybe it’s just not for me…


14 Cute DIY Ideas For Nursery

Since our little princess is on the way I decided to do some research and find some cute DIY decor ideas for her nursery. Even though we can’t change the wall color, or use nails on the walls as we are only renting this apartment temporarily, we can use pretty little things to her room.

A lot of my new friends are either expecting or recently became mothers, so in this post I will not only share the ideas for girls but also for boys.

14 Cute DIY Ideas For Nursery

1. Check out these cute pompons! They will bring a sense of a party to her nursery and to your eye 🙂

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2. Awesome and easy to make rag especially good for cold tile floors

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3. These wood blocks add some character to the room, don’t you think?

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4. This is simply adorable, and if you are not a big fan of owls you can come up with something different using this model as a sample

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5. Baby wouldn’t care less about this lamp right now, but it sure will bring an extra smile to parents and visitors


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6. Another rag which is even softer than the first

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7. This is a really cool idea, I saw it at a friend’s place but completely forgot about it up until now when I found it on the internet

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8. Great idea for a boy’s nursery but you can easily change it for the girl’s one with different colors

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9. This is definitely among my favorite DIY ideas

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10. What can be lighter than butterflies? The tutorial is for colorful butterflies, but to me the white ones look softer

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11. An awesome idea to use some space at a smaller place, or just to add extra style to it

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12. It can be either owls, or balloons or whatever else can come to your mind

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13. This is an easy and inexpensive way to make a baby gym for your little one the way you want it to be

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14. It’s not really a tutorial, but a really nice way to capture the moment when we are young and the babies are little. Remember how it all started.


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7 Oils For Your Healthy Hair

We all want beautiful shiny hair that looks like from we just stepped off a commercial set. Some people are born with it and maintain it that way. Others, like me, for instance, are born with beautiful shiny hair, but through the years I’ve noticed it’s gotten thinner and more dull because I liked to experiment with colors and hair-do’s.

I believe there is a remedy for someone like us as well, and a really good, natural and healthy way is to use oil as it contains all the nutritional and revitalizing components that your hair loves – vitamin E, vitamin A, vitamin K, omega-3, linoleic acid… the list goes on and on. What I love the most is there aren’t any chemicals!

7 Oils For Your Healthy Hair

Olive oilnaturally conditions your hair, adds extra softness and shine, fights off dandruff;

Coconut oil (Have you seen Indian ladies’ hair? They use this oil a lot!) – a great moisturizer, it stimulates hair growth, prevents split ends;

Almond oil – great for hair growth, helps make your hair shine;

Castor oil – helps to fight dandruff;

Argan oil – helps to heal dull lifeless hair;

Jojoba Oil – revitalizes dry hair, strengthens and heals dull and damaged hair;

Burdock Oil (popular in Russia and Europe) – helps to boost hair growth, combats hair loss, improves hair strength.

How To Use It:

  • Use a few drops only, unless you want your hair to look dirty, rub it over your palms and comb your fingers through your hair.
  • If you have dandruff you can use it on your scalp, massage it in, put on a shower cap, then wrap your head with a warm towel and leave it overnight. It’ll take a while to wash off the oil but it’s worth it.
  • Warm your oil up for better results (I’m not a big fan of microwaving, so I put it in a little bottle or a container and place it in a pot or a sink filled with hot water).
  • Add a drop of your favorite oil in a shampoo and conditioner for extra shine and silkiness.

Try these natural remedies and let me know what you think. Did it help your hair get shinier and more lustrous?

My First Month in South Africa

My First Month in South Africa

I can’t believe I landed here already a month ago. From Russia, where I spent a month with my family, from a hot Northern summer straight to a chilly Southern winter.

When I was leaving Russia, green forests and the gentle setting sun were waving me goodbye. It was as hard as always to say goodbye to my parents; mom was crying and so was I, dad was smiling, but I could see the sadness deep in his eyes. I often ask myself, “Why am I not a normal girl, living close to her family? Why did I choose such a life where I often have to say goodbye?” But then again, every “Goodbye” leads me to a new “Hello”.

Here I was, flying over the African skies, seeing how the green of Russia changed into yellow and orange of the African desert. I had a layover in Doha, Qatar. I really liked their airport, nice lounges where I could have a yummy breakfast with Arabic sweets and take a nice hot shower to wake me up as it’s already been a long flight from my hometown to Moscow with a few hour long layover and then to Doha.

Finally this second layover came to an end, I wasn’t able to sleep but that shower helped me feel like a human, not a zombie.

I was standing in line to get on the bus that would take us to the plane. The morning sun was so big and red, the whole scenery was telling me I was far from home. It was so beautiful and so different.

The bus ride was quite short, all this time I was chatting to my parents and my boyfriend over Viber; it made me feel more like home, more loved and less alone.

My last flight and I’ll see my love. I was so excited, so happy and so sad at the same time because the closer I was to my man, the further I was from my family.

I had a good flight, Qatar Airways are definitely among my favorite airlines so far. Their food was good and the seats were comfortable. I was able to take a few naps here and there and finally they announced that we were landing.

This is my second time in South Africa, and I remember when I came here a year and a half ago I was so surprised. I expected to see desert, huts, wild life just walking around, but Johannesburg was similar to any other Western city. That time it was all green because it was summer, but this time I saw more yellow shades. My flight was delayed a bit but it wasn’t too bad. I got out of the plane, waited for my baggage, someone helped me to put it on the cart and as I was leaving, I was stopped by an officer. His dog smelled something in my bag and I had to give them my favorite Russian apples. I was able to sneak a couple of them though.

Here I was, walking toward my new life in another hemisphere. Who would’ve thought I’d do it again, 7 years after moving to the States?

Konrad was there, waiting for me. We ran into each others arms and I felt like home again. I let my parents know I arrived safe and sound and Konrad took me to his parents place. It was so nice seeing them again. I’m truly blessed to have known such wonderful people and to have a chance to call them my South African Family.

And so my South African life began. We stayed at Konrad’s parents’ house for the first couple of days while we were assembling our first bed. Slowly but surely we started moving it. It’s a great experience to have your own place, but it’s challenging as well, because now you are responsible for everything at your new place.

A few things I’ve learnt about South Africans so far:
1. They are super nice, friendly and welcoming;
2. They always try to help;
3. They love to braai (barbeque) and eat a lot of meat. I think I’ve been to like 15 braais (including the ones at our place) since I came here;
4. They love eating out with friends;
5. They love spending time with friends.

I am lucky to meet such wonderful people and be included into their culture.

During this month:
1. I continued learning Afrikaans. The language seems easy, the grammar and the sentence structure, but their pronunciation is different from what’s written, that’s why it’s difficult for me to pick up what they are saying. It’s easier at this point to read and translate.
2. I started driving on the other side. It’s so weird for me, every time we make a turn, I want to go into the opposite lane. It was easier though when I drove an automatic car. I started to learn the manual now and sure drive like a grannie at this point.
3. I noticed most of the houses here have tile floor. It’s so different from what I’m used to, but I’m sure when it gets warmer I’ll be happy to walk on the tile floor. At this point I wear my warm socks and slippers.
4. Another thing about the houses is taps. There is a tap for hot water and another one next to it for cold water. Many houses have mixer taps, but many have separate ones. At our place, for instance, all taps are separate, but I’ve learnt to mix water to the nice temperature by pouring some cold water first into my palms, and they adding some hot water. I’m a pro now.
5. A lot of people start their own businesses and prefer to work for themselves, not for someone else. I love it! Gotta come up with an idea of what I’d want to do now.

Well, that’s about it for now. I must just say that South Africa is a beautiful country with wonderful people and I am happy I live here now. Just can’t wait till it gets warm and we will start going outdoors more.